Learning from Mistakes

There are good people in this world and then there are good people that do bad things and then there are bad people that do good things.

It is difficult to tell them apart sometimes. Humans beings by their very nature are not perfect. We all make mistakes at one point or another.

What is important as a human being is to learn from these mistakes and not make the same mistake more than once. Everything that happens to you is a lesson.

There is always a lesson to be learnt. This is how it works. If however, you do not look or find the lesson then it is likely you will make the same mistakes again.

However, the results will be worse the second time and the third time. Often, humans get stuck in patterns and repeat these mistakes many times over.

Great awareness is important to identify these repetitive patterns so that you can stop them in their tracks. Also be aware that some patterns are generational.

This means that there may have been a problem with your grandfather and then your father had the same problem and now you do as well.

With awareness, you can be the one to break the cycle and stop it passing on to your children. Be aware as well, that any of these patterns are breakable.

If you are stuck in a pattern, you always have the power to step into your creative spirit and choose a different path. Never be a victim and succumb to the pattern because you believe you are powerless and it is in your nature.

It is only in your nature for as long as you choose to let the story play out. Take control, be aware and choose to consciously break the pattern.

It could be drinking or bad relationships. Remember as well that you are responsible for creating it all. Understanding this is very helpful because it confirm that you have the power and the control to change the habit or pattern or what is essentially a mistake.

In order to change, you have to be focused on what you would really love in your life. Never focus on what you don’t want for you always get what you focus on.

If your focus is on not having enough money then you will get more of not enough money. If you focus is on why your relationships always fail, you will get more failed relationships.

This applies to many other patterns. It could be alcoholism or drugs. In order to gain awareness of what is going on in your life and what patterns and stories are running on destructive repeat, you need to give yourself the space.

The space to stop running around in life, worrying and panicking about everything. You need to give yourself the space to think clearly about what you would really love to have in your life.

Be in nature and away from any technology or other distractions will give you this space to think. It will help you become aware of what is going on for you.

Do not put a time limit on the space you need, do not put any other restrictions on your time in nature. There is nothing to do or nowhere to be.

There is just time and space that gives you the opportunity to drastically improve your life. Making better choices allows you to have a better life.

Choosing better things to focus on will also improve your life. Choose wisely and remember, you are a powerful creator and are solely responsible for your own life.

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