In the cycle of life on earth, there are things that happen that most cultures of humans do not understand.

One of those is birth and death. We celebrate birth but are often torn apart by death.

Death is never the end. It is simply a new beginning.

And while it is normal and fine to miss someone who has died, the reality is they continue their life in a different realm.

They are often reborn back onto earth if they wish or they simply live this different life in another place.

There is nothing to fear about death. It is simply the end of your current human experience. It has no more meaning than that.

While many people fear death and fear the death of their loved ones, every single creature is made up of energy.

This energy, be it in a human to give it’s body life or in a rabbit, a squirrel or an elephant. It is all the same process.

Even a tree that is hundreds or years old or an insect that is only a day old. They are both reborn and their energy continues its existence.

Or perhaps they advance into a different realm where they become a tree or an insect there.

Life is a continuous cycle. Energy never dies. Once the energy leaves it’s host body, the body is just an empty shell.

It has no further meaning or use. The life giving energy has moved on to its next destination.

This should be a joyful experience. A exciting journey of discovery and wonder as to what the next stage of the cycle will be for you.

The reality is that our life giving energy or our soul has lived many many thousands of years.

It has had many, many lives. All in different realms and in different guises.

I wish to explain this to you because often a death in a family or a loved one often has very detrimental effects on the humans that remain alive on earth.

By understanding that their loved one is simply on their next stage, their next cycle of life somewhere else.

Or reborn as a different person in a different part of the world in a different time.

It is sad for you that they are no longer by your side but they are not suffering.

They are not in pain. They are simply somewhere else having a different experience.

Of all the experiences and lives that our soul, our energy experiences, the human one is often the toughest for a lot of us.

It is very different to our others forms of life. It is very real, very raw and often dangerous to the host body.

Dealing with human emotions can be challenging.

Dealing with trauma as a young child and then navigating this throughout the rest of the human’s lifespan can be challenging and self-limiting.

I guess the reality is that it really is a bit of a game. A tough game but a game none the less.

One where you can learn to play and have fun or you can suffer and struggle through the game due to lack of skill and understanding.

Some may thrive during their human experience and be very successful and have an impact on human society overall.

Make massive changes to humanity. Others may simply slip through life, almost unnoticed, not making waves or changes.

Not getting involved fully into the game but trying to be safe and indeed, completely missing out on the human experience available to them.

Others play the game doing the wrong thing. Working countless hours in order to try and be successful but really just missing out on all the fun.

Others work out how the game is played. They understand that everything is a clever illusion.

It is a game that you have to play and navigate. Deal with adversity and come out the other side.

Use your brain and your intuition to navigate the game. Learn how money works and that getting it can be fun rather than hard work.

Buying lots of exciting toys and human stuff to enjoy the game even more.

But always understanding to be present, to enjoy the game, to understand that at any point the game may be over.

And that’s ok. It is nothing to fear. You just go off and play another game.

Or you may get to reset and play again. So, the lesson is to learn as much as you can about playing this game.

The goal is to have a great human experience and enjoy the game. To create whatever you would love to.

Whatever your imagination can come up with. And above all, love playing the game. Have fun and be excited. Don’t take anything too seriously.

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In the spirit of loving everyone and everything around you.

I wish to share with you how in this vibration of love you can conquer your fears.

You see, as humans, you are fearful of both success and failure.

Imagine if a small bird like a Robin, was fearful of rejection when his whole purpose in life is to find a mate and reproduce in order to continue on his species.

If he was fearful of finding a mate of being good enough to build a suitable nest and so on then he would fail in his purpose on earth.

If his whole purpose was to thrive but he was fearful of thriving then he would simply cease to function.

If others picked up on his fear and joined him and colluded with him, i.e. agreed that indeed this fear was justified then it wouldn’t take long for their whole system to collapse.

The females would be wondering what on earth is going on. They need males to reproduce and bring up their young.

Teach them to fly, feed and thrive in their own right. When you introduce fear into this equation, it simply breaks down and before long, there will be no new generation of Robins.

For a start, there is limited time, they cannot breed in the winter because the chicks will die from cold.

They don’t have time to deal with their thoughts and feelings as they come into spring.

They have a job to do. In the same token, humans have all these beliefs that hold themselves back.

They go into fear mode and they stop creating their life. They become a victim.

They collude with others who confirm that they are indeed a victim. This is a low vibration of energy.

At the end of the day, everything is energy. At a high vibration of energy, you are operating from your highest self, you are thriving and being the best version of you.

In a low vibration, nothing works, there is pain, suffering and misery.

The irony is, it is all a choice of which vibration you choose to be in. awareness is key of how you are being and how you are acting and what vibration you are currently sitting in right now.

As soon as you are angry or hateful of another being or situation, your vibration drops.

You become a victim of your circumstances and then things happen to you.

You are not creating a life you would love to live. You are not in control.

Once again, the irony is that this is all a choice. You may sit back and look at your life and circumstances and wonder how any of it is great.

How can you possibly get what you would love when everything around you is so hard and difficult.

The answer is that by making a conscious decision to raise your vibration, to fill and expand your heart space.

This will immediately change how you feel in this moment right now.

As soon as you see yourself, not as a victim but as a creator then your circumstances will change. Negative self-talk.

Beating yourself up in your head. This all lowers your vibration and puts you in victim mode.

You feel sorry for yourself. You speak to others and share your plight and they agree and even try out plight you.

Their life is worse than yours. It becomes a competition to who is suffering the most.

You subconsciously begin to create even more misery for yourself so that you can win the competition the next time you speak to your friend.

You may have a car accident or an illness. When you understand that you are responsible for everything that you create in your life.

Especially all the shit. Then you can come to understand and realise that you can create a life you would love instead.

You move into a high vibration. You make a conscious choice to not create disaster or illness in your life.

Most importantly, you set the structure in your life to ensure these things do not happen to you.

Structure is the crucial thing to understand. It is the backbone. If you do not maintain your car and your tires are worn out and you have an accident.

You have created this because you did not create the structure of having a reliable and safe car.

You can’t manifest having a safe journey when the structure behind your manifestation has no integrity.

You jump into a car with slick, worn out tyres and expect to get to your destination without having an incident while it is pouring with rain.

You have to take responsibility for what you wish to create in your life. This means, don’t test the system by not taking responsibility for the whole process.

Don’t arrive at the airport without your passport and think they are magically going to let you board the plane.

And then become a victim and shout and scream because they won’t.

Take responsibility for your actions. Don’t eat junk food all the time and expect yourself to magically be fit and healthy.

You have to create the structure of being fit and healthy by eating good food and exercising consistently.

In fact, your body is literally a mirror image of your health structure.

Creating a life you would love involves taking the right actions to setup the structure to make it all possible.

Being aware of the fear that will try and hold you back, that will tell you that you are not worthy and incapable.

You are not good enough. There is no point in trying. All low vibration feelings and thoughts which are in reality not true.

Take action on setting up the structure and the rest will fall into place.

So now, you can go out there and choose to be in a low vibration and be a victim of whatever happens to you during the day.

Or, you can go out there and choose to have an amazing day, in a high vibration of love and creativity.

On this day, you ponder what is the purpose of your life in this world.

You wonder if there are good and evil forces to deal with. You look upon the world and you can choose to see love everywhere or hate and anger everywhere.

Do you see the beauty of nature or do you see the anguish of wars.

Do you think most people are bad or are most people good. Do you think the world is full of evil corporations and sex trafficking and drugs and maliciousness.

Of incompetent, self-serving leaders slowly destroying our planet. Always coming up with new ideas which actually make things worse rather than better for the earth.

Or do you focus on what is within your control. How can you make your life better for those around you.

How can you, as a single individual operate from your highest self and serve those closest to you.

How can you make those people that come into contact with you, have a better day because of you.

We can call it serving humanity but really, you only have to start with the few people that you come into contact with.

If enough people all do the same, then it will indeed serve humanity and your world.

If we can just stop and listen to the nudges and what is being asked of us, then we can lead a much more fulfilling and purpose led life.

When you do anything that is not based on any conditions, then it comes from a pure place.

You smile at a stranger as they walk past you and say hello. It takes no effort but just imagine that the person you smile at and say hello to is having a terrible day.

Things are going from bad to worse. They are living in a really low vibration. They are in their victim mode.

They may even be getting to a point where they want to end it all. And you come along and give them a big smile and hello.

This firstly acknowledges them. They feel seen. And secondly you raise both your vibrations straight away.

To a higher vibration of unconditional love. It has no meaning more than that.

A smile and hello does not mean you want to jump into bed with them.

It is simply an unconditional gesture which can has a resounding effect. Or it could have no effect at all, they could blank you completely.

But it doesn’t matter. Still smile and say hello to the next person because you may just turn their dark day into a bright one.

And really, you have nothing to lose. Moving forwards, living out your purpose in life will serve your community and ultimately humanity.

It is discovering your gifts and talents and taking action to live in that vibration.

That feeling of being fulfilled is as I have mentioned before like no other. It is deeply satisfying to a human being.

You feel useful, purposeful and most importantly you feel like you are making a difference to the world.

Do the work to discover your purpose. There are many meditations and modalities available to help you find this.

Ultimately, it comes down to tapping into your subconscious which has the answers for you.

It takes a bit of effort and will to completely change your life but considering it is the most important thing you can do, why wouldn’t you.

Why wouldn’t you want to discover, regardless of your age, the reason you are on this planet.

Why would you not wish to seek that sense of fulfilment and love. To operate from your highest self, to find and live in your genius.

To serve those around you for the greater good. What could be more important than that. To have better and more loving relationships with your partner and kids if you have any.

Even to have a more loving and deeper connection with your friends and family.

There is simply so much more on offer in this world than you realise. This is so much more love and joy.

We are trained and brain washed in our school system to only think a certain way which ultimately only serves the few and not humanity as a whole.

I cannot express just how much you could be missing out on.

And the amazing thing is, that everyone benefits and everyone wins the more people that live their life in this way.

That seek and find their purpose. That choose to have deeper and more meaningful relationships with those around them.

There is a new way of being available to you. You just have to choose to seek and find it and live it. Remember always that love is the secret.

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There are many other worlds that we are not aware of in existence.

The human arrogance is so intense that we honestly believe we are the only living beings in a limitless universe full of trillions of galaxies.

With our size being akin to a grain of sand on a massive beach, how is it possible that only one grain of sand can have life on it.

It is incongruent that only one can have life, rather than millions.

It is more impossible to believe that there are no other species in our universe other than our own.

And it is a wrong assumption to believe that every other species simply want to destroy us when firstly we are doing a great job of doing it to ourselves and that secondly they have clearly been educating us for thousands of years.

Our technology and advancements in civilisation do not come about by accident or chance.

They come from clear intention which starts from a message from someone somewhere to give the idea of what is possible.

How does a small tribe, thousands of years ago with apparently very little intelligence, suddenly decide that the other tribes they are constantly at war with are actually their friends.

That suddenly, they should all join together and form a stronger, more powerful tribe.

How do they suddenly form social structures of leaders, a council or elders and even religion.

How did they decide all of a sudden that there are Gods that we can pray to who will give us what we want.

Or who destroy us if we do not please them. Who on earth decided it was a great idea to start sacrificing animals and even humans in order to appease the Gods.

This doesn’t even touch on the megalithic structures in the world that the human being of today is incapable of creating unless they had technology available to them that does not exist anymore.

How did humans of 10 000 years ago survive an ice age for 800 years when in today’s world, we panic over small climate changes.

How did humans learn what plants where edible and delicious and those that were not and would kill us.

Was it simply trial and error or was there more to it than that. Which humans looked at a tree and suddenly decided that they could build a house with it.

They could cut them in a certain way to build specific structures.

They could weave sticks to form baskets and to form the wall of a house and then fill it with mud and other material to create a house that not only lasts hundreds of years but it actually better than today’s methods of building.

How did different tribes around the whole world come up with different ideas to build different types of houses.

And yet, at the same time, in a time where apparently, there was no travelling across the globe, there are pyramid type structures with striking similarities built thousands of years ago.

Was it simply someone’s imagination to create the first bank. Was money simply someone’s imagination.

Where does imagination come from. A message from another being in another world or from thin air.

There is so much which is unknown and yet there are so many advancements available to us if we just listen out for the messages.

If we are open to receiving guidance and advice from an unknown entity.

We think it is crazy and even stupid but the reality is, it is even more crazy and stupid to think all these ideas and technology came out of thin air.

You say that we became more intelligent over thousands of years of evolution but why would we.

Why have other animals not become more intelligent over thousands of years.

There is so much about our own world, we simply don’t understand but we are taught by others to just believe and to do what we are told.

In an ideal world, we would not think but just do what we are told because free thought creates problems for those in power.

They want us stupid and compliant. This is your choice but if you want a better way, then be open to listening to what is going on and the messages coming through to your subconscious.

There is gold and limitless abundance available to all of us but more importantly there is help and guidance on saving our earth.